From the desk of J.L. Stoval…
*** CSC Recommendations and Conduct ***
The best way to utilize CSC is to befriend everyone, especially those of the opposite gender. Those interested in you will naturally gravitate toward you. We try to have lots of events there is no need to rush.
For men, this gives you time to “predate” women at no cost. You don’t have to worry about dates because you’re getting to know the person while you hang out at CSC.
For women, this allows you time to relax and “watch” the men to see who’sa good fit is.
CSC works hard to provide events almost every weekend, especially during the warm months. Members come out often.
If there is an event that you’d like to do, simply let the organizers know.
CSC’s desire is for your marriage. The goal of CSC Events is two-fold.
- To provide a “safe non-judgmental” environment where you can talk to those in the group to get to know them first, before you become romantic.
- To be a “wing-person” so that you will be comfortable leaving home. (CSC recognizes that women generally outnumber the men, so we try to find places where there may be more single men available.)
If you jump the gun and try to force a relationship, that person may become uncomfortable and not come back to the group. We’re not in the “grocery store” or at the “gas station.” There’s no need to rush. Also just because you liked someone at an event, there’s no need to jump into their DMs if they haven’t shown interest. Ask them if it’s ok before you dm them. The best way to know is to come back and be a regular at the events. Eventually your person will come.
If anyone feels uncomfortable, please tell one of the organizers. We will work with the offending person and explain the “vibe” of CSC. If the person refuses to listen, we will ask them not to come back to any events and will remove their membership.
CSC has a PG-13 energy. You may talk about almost anything that would be in a PG-13 movie. However, do not use excessive profanity or “mature” words/phrases. We understand that to express yourself, especially when discussing dating, you may want to talk about certain subjects. But “how” you talk about those subjects matters. Please don’t try to demean or dominate anyone. In doing so, you are proving that you need to work on yourself and deal with your own problems before dating.
Enjoy. Relax. Chill. Be Friendly. God is with us…